When I ask Tay his most preferred way to connect together, he’ll always say ‘on the couch, talking, sharing a bottle of wine’. It’s no surprise the night we met, we did just that! (…except that we were dumb college kids and it was keystone not wine…don’t judge!) Sharing a calm, evening together on our couch, just talking, will always be one of our favorite ways to spend time. We love to dream about our future, and ask each other questions. We grow by learning more about each other!
WHY interview your honey?
- Communication is key in a relationship
- You grow closer by being vulnerable with each other
- Having MEANINGFUL conversation builds trust
- Learn more and Love more about your honey
GOALS for the interview
- be supportive and nonjudgmental
- put away your phone! (except maybe to read these interview prompts!)
- have fun, and be honest
- reconnect
I referenced this list in my post ‘Let’s Stay Home: 1 Week of At-Home Date Nights’. This would be the ‘Thursday Night Talk Show’ at home date. Though this could be done anytime, anywhere! We love to interview each other on long road trips. I challenge you and your honey to get comfy on the couch, sip your favorite beverage (hopefully not keystone…) and dive into these questions!
- When you were in elementary school, what did you want to be when you grew up?
- If you had to pick a song to play whenever you walked into a room, what song would you pick?
- What’s the most important tradition you want our family to follow?
- When you’re feeling overwhelmed, what helps you calm down?
- What are your top 3 travel bucket list destinations?
- How would you want people to describe you after you die?
- If you had 1 day left on earth, what 3 meals would you eat?
- What is your favorite memory of the night we met?
- If a movie was made about your life, what actor/actress would play you?
- If we could live abroad for 1 year, where would you want to live?
- What is one word that describes our relationship?
- What is something that made you laugh this week?
- What is the scariest thing you’ve ever done?
- If you got to pick the hottest outfit for me, how would you dress me?
- When is the last time you cried, and why?
- If you were to write a book, what would be about?
- If we could re-do our life up until now, would you change anything?
- Do you have a mantra or motto that you live your life by?
- If you had a superpower, what would it be, and why?
- Imagine yourself at 35 years old, what does life look like now?
- …at 50 years old? ….at 75 years old?
- If you could go camping with a celebrity, who would it be?
- What is one quality in your parents that you want us to emulate when we become parents one day?
- If someone gave you $100, how would you spend it?
- What do you love most about me?
You did it! Share your experience in the comments below! Any questions you’ve loved asking your honey?
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